No matter how much we focus on our parenting, there come times when we wonder, “How are my kids doing?” Those moments might appear when a challenging incident occurs, such as a public tantrum, or the dreaded minor stealing event. We might also torture ourselves with doubts about our children’s emerging character traits when we see someone else’s child handling a situation seemingly better than our own. Worst of all, these questions can howl in the middle of the night for….well, just because. Night yaps. That’s what they called it in one episode of West Wing. Good name for it? Relax. You can breathe now. There are solutions for these doubts!