All of the experts agree that crying is a complex behavior. So, a little confusion about it is understandable. When your child cries you feel that confusion, right? Along with many thoughts, and your own emotional reactions. In addition to the “why” question, any parent will also ask themselves…
College, student loans, career planning, and how to put it all together isn’t easy. Understandably, most of the deliberation centers around cost vs. potential earning. College funded by student loans has gotten a lot of press, and sometimes I see people shying away from college all together. They do this primarily because of the fear of debt. Going to college, and borrowing money to do it, are major life decisions. So, it makes sense to have a good plan first, and hopefully these ideas will help. [Read more…]
You know how along the way in life you sometimes hear something someone says and it just sticks in your head, even though you didn’t expect it? Something like that one thing your dad said as he was driving you off to college, or something a friend said about marriages back when yours was in a low spot. Those things you think of over and over and might say to people once in awhile, even now? I know you know what I am talking about, don’t you? [Read more…]
Sleep gets a lot of press. Sleep hygiene gets a lot of press. And now, sleep hygiene for children has hit the charts of top parenting concerns. Sleep ranges from something we take for granted, to a part of our lives high on lists of major parenting concerns. What’s happening?!
Not too long ago sleep was a passive activity that came at the end of a physically demanding day, and it was a given. It got dark, we got tired, and we gratefully went to bed and went to sleep. Today, younger, and more, children have developed sleep challenges. They suffer from sleep deprivation, causing noticeable life disruption, in multiple settings. At any one time, numerous sources report that up to 25% of children will have behavioral sleep disorders and sleep deprivation at some point. [Read more…]
At a conference I attended years ago I heard a wise man, Denny McLaughlin, discussing happiness. He said that there are four really effective ways to make yourself miserable. Your kids can make themselves feel the same way. With the same kind of thinking.
So, logically, if there are four ways to make yourself unhappy, there must be four really good opposite ways to make yourself happy. How easy can it be? [Read more…]
As it turns out, you just might have goofed up, made a mistake of some kind. So now what?
Your employer will no doubt have something to say, or will do something, or tell you to do something, or……discipline you! [Read more…]